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Kevin Connolly's avatar

Great read.

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YUKTHI DHASMANA's avatar

Thank you.

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The Urban Monk's avatar

Thank you Yukthi for reading :)

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Mariella Candela Amitai's avatar

This is so true, the value of experiencing things for ourselves. That's the key.

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The Urban Monk's avatar

Indeed, Mariella. The ultimate truth can only be truly understood through one's own experience

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Stephanie C. Bell's avatar

"Don't just read the recipe, taste the cake." What brilliance!!!!!!!!! ❤

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The Urban Monk's avatar

I'm happy it resonated with you, Steph :)

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Jimmy Warden's avatar

This is why the path of enlightenment isn't an "idea." It's an experience.

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The Urban Monk's avatar

Couldn't have said it better, Jimmy :)

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Pat Wetzel's avatar

What a wonderful and insightful piece. This is everything I love about a zen approach to life. Personally, I've come to see life as a road trip that's meant to be felt and experienced every step of the way. It's messy, imperfect and utterly perfect all at once.

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The Urban Monk's avatar

I'm glad it resonated with you, Pat. Yup, that sense of embracing the imperfection and finding beauty in all of it captures the heart of a Zen approach so well.

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Vivienne Helen's avatar

Wise words indeed.

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The Urban Monk's avatar

Thank you Vivienne, for both, reading and engaging :)

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Virgin Monk Boy's avatar

Ah yes, the ancient wisdom of cake. Finally, a dharma lesson even my inner child monk can digest.

You’ve said it perfectly—reciting the map coordinates to Nirvana doesn’t get you there any faster if you never leave your cushion. And quoting Rumi doesn’t count as transformation unless you’ve wrestled with your own grief at 3 a.m. and still managed to love anyway.

So many wander the monastery halls with heavy scrolls in hand, but can’t handle the silence in their own heart. The path doesn’t reward the most well-read. It rewards the most willing.

Taste the damn cake. Burn your tongue a little. That’s the only way the sacred becomes real.

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