This is such a needed reminder, simple, but not easy. It takes real practice to pause before blaming, to sit with discomfort long enough to ask what’s mine here? Your words don’t shame; they invite. And that’s what makes them land.
Thank you for the calm clarity of this. It curved something in me back toward stillness.
This really hit home. It’s wild how often the stuff that irritates me in others is actually something I haven’t fully faced in myself. Appreciate the reminder to pause and ask what’s really going on underneath the reaction. Feels like a much healthier place to come from.
Yup, it’s such a powerful shift when we start seeing those "irritations" as mirrors. Pausing and getting curious about what’s beneath the reaction really is such a game changer.
Didn’t know about Karpaman’s triangle… but I observed these roles in myself and in people… interesting.
Yup, it’s eye-opening to realize how often we unconsciously shift between those roles. Awareness is definitely the first step toward change.
Such an important reminder that frustrations are a mirror to our own ego.
I'm glad this piece resonated with you, Amanda. Thank you for reading :)
This is such a needed reminder, simple, but not easy. It takes real practice to pause before blaming, to sit with discomfort long enough to ask what’s mine here? Your words don’t shame; they invite. And that’s what makes them land.
Thank you for the calm clarity of this. It curved something in me back toward stillness.
Stay entangled, my friend.
—The Bathrobe Guy
Thank you, Bathrobe Guy. I'm glad it resonated with you. Stay robed in awareness 🙏😉
Very well presented accessible presentation. May it foster interpersonal harmony! 🙏
Thank you, Richard. Indeed 🙏
This really hit home. It’s wild how often the stuff that irritates me in others is actually something I haven’t fully faced in myself. Appreciate the reminder to pause and ask what’s really going on underneath the reaction. Feels like a much healthier place to come from.
Yup, it’s such a powerful shift when we start seeing those "irritations" as mirrors. Pausing and getting curious about what’s beneath the reaction really is such a game changer.
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Thank you Pat, for reading this piece and engaging :)
Thank you for this timely reminder🩵🩵🩵
You’re welcome, Vivienne. I’m really glad the timing was right for you :)